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王 money 就長這樣啦 ~~ 不過他比這照片還要再更胖一點 .... 饅啾說昨天已經幫他洗完澡囉 ....... 真是開心 !!! ( 圖片感謝 Iden 首肯 . )

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昨天要上班前看到公園旁停了一台捐血車 , 看了一下時間 , 估還來得及 , 停好車就等了一會兒 ; 後來就跟義工說我趕時間上班 , 另一名排在我前面的媽媽就說那我先讓你好了 ( 真感謝她 ) , 於是我就上了車驗證 , 量血壓與驗血紅素 ~~ 其實我從17歲開始捐血原本一直都沒什麼問題 ; 不過出社會工作後也許是壓力或工時的不正常 , 或基因問題 , 我的血紅素幾乎每次都不足 , 大都11點多 ; 正常能捐都要12以上 , 所以我就有點擔心這次會不會也沒過 , 但是親切的護士小姐以高調說 : '' 恭喜你 , 是12 . 7 喔 . '' 真是太好了 !!

趕快坐上椅子 , 一位美麗的護士妹妹就幫我上藥 , 扎針 , 看著自己的血流入袋中 , 雖然一袋血不足為道 , 但對需要血救命的人而言是永不嫌多的 . 大概輸了10分鐘有 , 突然護士說我的血塊堵住了針頭 , 她又把鋼針深插入我的手臂裡 , 我就眼睜睜地看著那隻針推到底 ..... 天呀 , 可是不會痛 , 事後她給我一個軟管 , 交代我每天要擦一次 , 可能怕我黑青 , 但至目前為止 , 手臂都還沒什啥事 . 預估2個月後再捐 ------ 哈哈哈 , 跟我公看齊囉 , 她之前還獲頒獎狀呢 , 因為她捐了50次以上 !! 非常以她為榮 !!!

今天跟公溝通了未來的走向 ; 她說再給她3年的時間 , 因為她一定要確認她妹自己能站得起來她才會放手 ; 若3年過去她自己還不行 , 那她也沒辦法 . 她說很不想失去我 , 也不想我搬家 . 可是基於現實考量 , 我也要有我的做法 ; 所以搬家一事是確定的 .

她也有跟她妹問過3人再住一起的可能性 ; 當初我一聽到是沒馬上表明反對 , 只是請她問她妹的意思 , 結果 ~ 她妹說我老是用一種 '' 很奇怪 '' 的定位去看她 , 她的意思就是我把她當成 '' 情敵 '' 看待 ---- ( 我在之前的文有講過此事 ) , 我問我公怎麼想 ? 她說她一直認為她妹的心是扭曲的 , 因為一般人也看得出來 , 若我真的把她當情敵看 , 我對她應該是充滿了恨意 , 甚至早就跟我公了斷 , 我也可以去她公司騷擾她或幹些壞事 ~~ 所以 .... 我不懂她怎麼會這麼想 ? ? ?

朋友 K 說依我的個性是不可能和我公分手的 ; 而我必需說 , 因為我還在乎她 , 我還是愛著她所以我不能就這樣放棄 . 可是對我家人那邊我又該怎麼說明 ? 因為我阿爸也70好幾了 .... 我姐妹也認為我應該速速跟她切了 , 可是她一直要我給她機會 , 因為她真的不想失去我 ..... what should I do ?

晚上鐵定失眠 , 超機車 !!!!

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引用刪除七月雪 / 2008-03-10 22:22:24: Come  back  again !! First  must  tell  you ,  I  already  go  to  tample  and  told Buddha  that  about  you  (  in  US ) and  your  wife  (  in  TW )  both  have  good  health  and  good  lucky  in  2008 !  I  believe  Buddha  already  listen  to  me ,  because  I  抽到了一支上上籤唷 ~~~

Ya ,  my  honey is a very responsible sister ,  she  just  doesn't  want  her  mom  to  worry  her third  daughter .  ''  ..... she has to fall into her trick. ''  Well ,  I  think this' s  not  important , my  honey  just  want  to  help  her  3  years ,  this ' s  the  truth .

Be the victim  ?  Haahaa ,  I  don't  think  this  way  now . I  ever  told  my  honey  the  future  will  be  change ,  not  will all  follow  her mind ,  but  she  told  me  that  after  3  years ,  she  won't  care  her  sister ,  she won' t  care  ger  have  good  or  bad  life ,  now  she  already  promise  her  mom ,  just  3  years ,  so  I  don't  know  what  should  I  say  ? ?

Today  she  told  me  that  their  dad  doesn't  want  her  sisiter  and  baby  come  back  to  his  home  ,  so  they ' ll  living  in  the  same  house  (  The  rent must  1 , 3000 NT / month .  )

She  told  me ,  if  I  moving  to  other  place ,  we ' ll  break  up ,  she  doesn't  want  to  see me ,  she  wants I can  living  the  same  house (  The  rent  cost  me  1 , 0000 NT / month ! )  , I  don't  want  to  living  here .  So ,  I ' ll  think  again  and  tell  her  that  my  choice .  以上就是我最新的情形啦 ~~
(  How  to  say  in  English  about  this  sentence ?  Could  you  tell  me ? )

'' Don' t you need to have one too?  “I need to be in love with my sweetest hubby.”------>  Haahaahaa !!  It's  very  good !!  I  really  need  this  song !!!  You  give  me  the  homework ~  ,  yes ,  since  first  to  forth  ,  this  songs  I  ever  listen  and  remember  these  words ,  but  fifth song  that  don't have  to listen ;  and  not  in  the 2 CD .

引用刪除七月雪 / 2008-03-09 02:09:40: Dear  Greg :

   I can  understand  your  means !!  I ' ll  no  need  to  work  on  next  Monday ,  I  'll  write  back  for  you ;  and  have  something ,  can't talking  now  ...... ,  so ,  feeling  is ......

      Forget  it ,  I want  to  sleep  now ,  just  a  little  tired ,  and  say  '' hello '' to  your  wife  ~~

引用刪除 Greg / 2008-03-08 23:36:33: Your hubby’s sister, she sounds like a spoiled brat or naïve person!  A grown up person will not do such of r action.  She is blackmailed to the one who cared about her!  I guess since your hubby is a very responsible sister, she has to fall into her trick.

All I could say is, what about your hubby finally releasing her duty and no longer helping her out, will she (your hubby’ sister) do that again and/or she will do something worse?  This sound like no ending trouble! And of course, you will be the victim!

I think you should discuss this issue with your hubby!  She knew her own sister well and even she did promise you the timeline, you might need to remind her that this might not work out according to her plan!  She should train her own sister to be independent or help her find a husband/boyfriend!  You know what I mean?

Carpenters is my favor music!  The ones I posted are the one I love the most!  Ha, ha… yeah, I should change the song title you suggested is right!

Don’t you need to have one too?  “I need to be in love with my sweetest hubby.”

Well, I just changed it to somewhere over the rainbow by Ray Charles!  That is my wife favor!

Touch  me when we ' re dancing ''  and  ''  Close  to  you  are very pretty songs!  Have you listened the following?

1) Yesterday once more (this song is for old people like, kept remember the past)
2) Rainy days & Monday
3) Desperado
4) I just fall in love again (my most loved song)
5) Don’t’ cry for me Argentina (she sang the best Evita theme song)

引用刪除七月雪 / 2008-03-08 02:02:49: I  think  the  point  is ''  her  sister  and  that  baby  ''  ;  if  my  honey  doesn't  care  them ,  her  sister  will  do  some ''  special  jobs ''  ,  just  like  drink  much  wine  with  many  men  all  midnight  until  morning  -----  I  don't  know  how  to  say  in  English ,  hope  you  know  my  means .  If  she  do  those  jobs ,  their  mom will  sick  ( her  heart  isn' t  good ) ,  my  honey  doesn't  think  this  kinds  of  things  will  happen  again ,  so  she  works  very  hard  and  tired , I  know  because  I  ever  follow  her  to  work ,  too .

You ' re  right ,  I really  feel very unsecure ,  but  she 's  my  honey ,  so  not  sure  what  to  do  now  .....  Just  have  an  idea ,  I  '  ll  talk  with  her ;  if  she  ..... ya , I  '  ll  know  what  should  I do .

And  thanks  too  much  ,  you  always  listen  to  me . Your  blog 's  music ,  I  remember  is  Carpenters 's  song ;  '' I  need to  be  in  love '' ,  right ?  I  think  maybe  can  change  it ;  how  about  ''  I  need  to  be  in  love  with  my  wife  forever '' ?  (  too  long ? ? )    haahaa !!

I  like  another  songs , ''  Touch  me when we ' re dancing ''  and  ''  Close  to  you ''   her songs  both  very  nice ,  I  have  2 CD ,  and  listen  everynight ~~

Hope  you are  good  in  US !!

引用刪除七月雪 / 2008-03-08 01:39:34: 能有較好的解決辦法，誰願意選擇下下策呢？！ ------> 是呀 ,  所以我又想到了一個法子 ,  這幾天我會跟我公討論看看可不可行囉 .

總覺得 ,  雖然拉子的感情沒有結婚證書什麼的 .....  可是 ..... 既然在一起了就是有那份責任把關係維持好 ,  因為我很不喜歡那種浮動的感情模式 ;  為什麼異性戀可以在一起一輩子 , 我們同志就不行 ? ?

所以既然我公沒有想放棄我 ,  那麼我們就再努力看看吧 !!  我一定也要努力到最後呀 !!! 對 , 我也一定要加油 !!!

引用刪除 ☆咚咚咚★ / 2008-03-07 08:52:36: ＜吳淡如說過：最狠不下心放手的人，對自己最狠心。＞這句話可以適用在兩個人身上，哼哼
不過感情的事不是能說算就算，相處的時間一長很多事情都有連帶關係。
如果能有較好的解決辦法，誰願意選擇下下策呢？！

引用刪除 Greg / 2008-03-07 07:27:20: I understand how you feel, you must feel very unsecure. right?    if not, you should not need to think at all and trust your hubby wholeheartedly!

may be this is the what the whole thing about, the unsecure feeling that your hubby had/has given you and she left you uncertain.

I think this is your hubby's responsbile, she should make you feel secure and the very first thing she should do is "working" on her promise!

if her promise did work out, I guess you will feel better, right?
I know  your  means ;  But  you  know ,  2  peole  already  together ,  that 's  means :  we  are  family ,  we  must  solve  these  or  those  problems  together ....  that 's  ''  couple '' 's  real  means . We  have  sad and  happy  times ,  if  we  can  keep  up ,  maybe  just  like  my  honey  told me ,  we '  ll  have  a  nice  future ......  I not  sure  now , because  I  must  have  more  time  to  think  again , break  up  always  not  easy ; especially  she  told me ,  she  still  love  me  ....  do  you think  should  I  believe  her ? ?  I  want ,  because  she 's  my  husband .

引用刪除七月雪 / 2008-03-07 00:54:15: 親愛的大姐 :

      今天你的愛車又拿去修了 ~~ 引擎有點故障 ,  換了一面鏡子和剎車桿 ,  這樣 ~~

      老媽3月30日就要與蘇姐出發到美國啦 ~  還煩請你與阿光哥多多照顧 ,  萬事拜託囉 ~  哈哈哈哈 !!  ( 我28和29會回家 ~~ 放心吧 ~~  )

PS ;  她今天感冒了 ....  已看過醫生了 ......  我也在你的 blog 留言了 ~~
先去睡也 ~

引用刪除七月雪 / 2008-03-06 02:03:31: 海灘 ,  謝謝你的意見 .  只是我必需要再好好想想 , 分手並非易事 .

事實上今晚我們又有點小爭執 ; 我問她為什麼她哥都能像沒事人那樣置身事外 (  當事人可是他的親妹妹呢 ) ,  而所有責任卻是你一肩扛起 , 難道同性戀的家庭就不是家庭 ? 只有異性戀的家庭才是真的家庭嗎 ? ?

她很生氣 ,  不想與我討論這個 .  爾後我也消了氣 , 算了 .....  該來的總是會來 .  目前我還是信賴著她 .  倆人能同在一起就是緣份 ,  都要好好珍惜 .

引用刪除七月雪 / 2008-03-06 01:56:32: I know your means ; But you know , 2 peole already together , that 's means : we are family , we must solve these or those problems together .... that 's '' couple '' 's real means . We have sad and happy times , if we can keep up , maybe just like my honey told me , we ' ll have a nice future ...... I not sure now , because I must have more time to think again , break up always not easy ; especially she told me , she still love me .... do you think should I believe her ? ? I want , because she 's my husband .