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part 2, 14位絕代美女誰老得最快
2008-06-26 06:07:49
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14位絕代美女誰老得最快
2008-06-26 03:52:17
sighs.....after checking their current photo, I am little disappointed!

美女,是我們生活裡的希望,伴我們成長的超級大美女們,十數年過去,我們依然記得她們的美貌,她們現在還在麼? 她們是否美貌依舊?她們是是否生活悠閒?還是如同普通人,慢慢地黯淡,慢慢地老去,像那首歌唱的:那些花兒,飄到哪裡去了?

超級美女今何在?
1、繁華落盡
要說我們這個時代最風華絕代的美女,非林青霞莫屬,她縱橫台港,橫跨瓊瑤徐克兩個時代,是眾望所歸的第一美人,但美人大多情路坎坷,19歲就遇到了命中魔星秦漢,糾纏近二十年,等到秦漢離完婚她也完全得到自由之後,1994年林青霞卻出人意料地嫁給了其貌不揚的富商邢李原,連生兩個女兒,過著幸福的闊太生活,2007年9月,林青霞被狗仔隊拍到在獨自去香港健康情緒中心看病,被疑患上了抑鬱症,此前她的婚姻也幾度告急,最離譜的是傳出邢李原為求有後,在上海與一名30多歲的女子育有一子,對此,林青霞的回答是“我的婚姻很幸福”,一切都難以看透,唯一能證實的是,記者們在鍾楚紅老公追思會場外,拍到素服的林青霞,風采依舊,當然,終於也有了小肚腩。
林青霞對比照圖片說明:19歲的林青霞天質國色,53歲的林青霞依然是狗仔隊的重點目標,她的品味與氣質依然不可仿仿製。 容貌改變度:30%

鍾楚紅
如果說林青霞是台灣的第一美女,那香港的首席就非鍾楚紅莫屬,鍾楚紅是土生土長的香港女孩,1979年的港姐選美得到最讓人傷心的第四名,被劉松仁拉進電影圈,演出第一部電影《碧水寒山奪命金》,在上世紀90年代港片高峰時代成為一代紅姑,《縱橫四海》成為她的封山作,1992年她下嫁廣告界才子朱家鼎,專心環保工作,偶爾接拍廣告,數年間就入袋千萬,這麼多年以來,鐘朱兩夫婦低調生活,堪稱娛樂圈最幸福的夫妻,2007年8月,朱突患大腸癌去世,十六年恩愛夫妻從此緣盡,而鍾楚紅的複出則呼之欲出。
鍾楚紅對比照圖片說明:一直以性感在骨子里而出名的鍾楚紅幾乎是數十年沒有任何變化,無論是身形還是外貌,難怪美容產品一定要找她代言。
容貌改變度:0%

楊采妮楊采妮一出道,就被目為氣質大美女,震懾影圈,但在拍了四五年電影正走紅之際,這位特立獨行的女子突然宣佈在進軍商界,在馬來西亞和男友一起開設形象設計公司,三年後,公司神秘破產,楊采妮不得不復出,近年主力擔任美容代言人及參演大電影。
楊采妮對比照圖片說明:楊采妮的相貌遠看並無變化,但眼角的皺紋卻出賣了她,生活永遠沒有想像的順利,就算美女也不例外。
容貌改變度:20%

藍洁瑛2、一身憔悴在風裡
藍洁瑛幾乎是香港最不幸的女人,她出身草根家庭,同為香港無線電視藝員,和劉嘉玲、吳君如同為藝訓班成員,但因為性格原因,被電視台雪藏,後在《大時代》、《大話西遊》中出現,人氣已經大不如前,同時她的兩次戀愛均告失敗,多年的同居男友在1998年棄她而去,無收入無工作無男友無朋友,每況愈下的藍洁瑛神經失常,不斷爆出自殺、發瘋等舉動,令人感慨紅顏多薄命。
藍洁瑛對比照圖片說明:昔日號稱靚絕五台山的藍洁瑛生活無著,經常被雜誌拍到瘋態。
容貌改變度:80%

陳玉蓮史上那個最美麗的小龍女陳玉蓮,和劉德華演出過紅極一時的《神鵰俠侶》,曾是劉天王的暗戀對象,當時她和電視台最帥的帥哥周潤發是一對,苦戀5年,被周母捧打鴛鴦,1982年,周潤發為情自殺,1983年閃電結婚,1984年陳下嫁美國商人陳超武,於1992年離婚,之後她與外型打扮都很中性的女導演蔡美詩同居,相處11年後分手,她近年單身居住在屋村,傳說最近要復出拍劇。
陳玉蓮的對比照圖片說明:陳玉蓮人美,命薄,近年她篤信佛教,日趨保守。
容貌改變度:40%

鞏俐3、滿城飛絮
鞏俐的出名以及成功都藉助張藝謀,但她的真正成熟卻要在離開張藝謀之後,1992年,她毅然和富商黃和祥結婚,此後,雖然一直婚變聲音不斷,卻始終只聞樓梯響,不見人下來,鞏俐在好萊塢和國內之間來回游盪,陪伴在身邊的分別是不同國別的帥哥,生活在逍遙自由中。
鞏俐年輕時很漂亮,卻漂亮得沒有內容,像今天的周韻,近年她屢次以噴血的晚裝形像在各大影展出沒,有輪廓感的容貌讓她更具成熟女性的魅力。
容貌改變度:20%

張曼玉4、只有桂花香暗飄過
張曼玉晚鍾楚紅四年出道,從電視演到電影,二十年的時間,六奪金像、金馬,唯一一個獨得柏林、戛納影后的亞洲女性,作為一個女演員,她達到了不太可能再達到的高峰,成為新一代的女神。 張曼玉年輕時為愛不顧一切,屢受情傷,後來離開香港避居法國,享受自由生活,在嫁給法國導演兩年之後宣布離異,近年主力以接拍廣告為主,至於愛人,則還在尋覓當中。
張曼玉的對比照圖片說明:張曼玉年輕時有一對小虎牙,有點BBFAT,屬於可愛那種,後來把小虎牙拔掉,於是成就一代影后,現在的張曼玉以型人著稱,極瘦,身上幾乎沒有肉,進入以氣質取勝的年代。
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周慧敏周慧敏是香港人的驕傲,單親家庭出身,從電台的兒童節目的主持人做到歌星,一直是個小胖妹,後稍一打扮,原來是大美人,但她不尚虛榮,一件衣服常常穿了又穿,是超級慳妹,年近三十就選擇退出,同男友倪震過神仙眷侶的同居生活,養貓畫畫攝影打斯洛克,過寫意生活,如今就算是男友屢傳花心,她也不驚不怕,繼續過她的平靜生活。
周慧敏的對比照圖片說明:周慧敏是美麗的奇蹟,她真是一點變化沒有,所以才有資格接拍資生堂廣告,500萬買這樣的生招牌,值,同樣,美麗除了保養,更重要的是心態。
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CA Same sex marriage couples profiles!
2008-06-18 06:10:47
hmmm, i wonder why I don't see much asian couples in this listing! (yeah, there is one down there!)
George Takei, 71, and Brad Altman, 54
Hometown:West Hollywood
How long together:21 years
How they met:Takei, best known for playing Sulu on "Star Trek," met Altman through a gay rights organization in the 1970s. The couple got their marriage license on Tuesday and plan to be married September 14 in Los Angeles."I'm the luckiest guy in the world today," Altman said. "I'm marrying George Takei, and I'm doing it legally." -- Erin Allday
Caroll Cantwell and Rachel Lanzerotti
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:13 years
How they met:At work
Listen: 1:53 min(Download Audio 1.14 MB)Like many couples married Tuesday, Cantwell, 42, and Lanzerotti, 38, have had a commitment ceremony and also got married in San Francisco in 2004. Though Tuesday was their third time saying their vows, Cantwell said it felt different.
"It's more serious this time because we know it's real," she said. Cantwell was so excited to make their union legal that she interrupted deputy marriage commissioner Jennifer Rakowski in the middle of the vows to shout, "I do!" As the 30 friends and family surrounding the couple chuckled, Cantwell explained. "We've been waiting a long time." The ceremony was interrupted a second time — by cheers -- when Rakowski noted the power vested in her by the state of California. "I hope we won't have to do this again," Lanzerotti said. "I know we won't," Cantwell answered. -- Marisa Lagos
Michael Grimes (left), 45, and Joel Heast, 52
Hometown:Hollywood
How long together:16 years
How they met:Grimes and Heast met at a restaurant and exchanged rings a year later. They've owned a hair salon in West Hollywood for six years. The couple got their marriage license Tuesday, but aren't officially tying the knot until Saturday in a group ceremony at the same West Hollywood courthouse.Grimes and Heast met at a restaurant and exchanged rings a year later. They've owned a hair salon in West Hollywood for six years. The couple got their marriage license Tuesday, but aren't officially tying the knot until Saturday in a group ceremony at the same West Hollywood courthouse.
Steve Anderson, 64, and Shaun Green, 43
Hometown:Mill Valley
How long together:11 years
How they met:Green was working in a wine store in 1988 and talked Anderson into purchasing a 1985 Lynch Bages Pauillac. Anderson liked the wine almost as much as the man who made the recommendation, but the couple waited to get together until 1997 when Anderson broke up with a previous boyfriend."We had a pool at work to see how long it would take for him to ask me out," said Green. "He served beef stroganoff to a vegetarian on the first date, but I ate it anyway." -- Peter Fimrite
Sharon Papo, 29, and Amber Weiss, 31
Hometown:Berkeley
How long together:Five years
How they met:At a political eventA cheering crowd on Tuesday greeted Papo and Weiss, who wore white beaded dresses to San Francisco City Hall. "We wanted to be part of history, of making history," Weiss said. "When we were little girls growing up we always thought we'd get married," added Papo. "Today we are absolutely overjoyed." -- Marisa Lagos
Michael Gonsalves, 52, and and James Campbell, 59
Hometown:Mill Valley
How long together:32 years
How they met:Campbell was working security at a San Francisco nightclub when he noticed Gonsalves and their eyes met. A bartender introduced them and they have never been apart since."We always considered ourselves married," said Campbell. "I actually have the date - March 25, 1975 - when we first got together, tattooed on my left shoulder ... He thought I should have done it backward so he could read it in the mirror when I was shaving." -- Peter Fimrite
Mark Dresser (left) and J.C. Thomas
Hometown:San Francisco, although Dresser is from Charlotte, N.C., and Thomas is from Denver.
How long together:10 1/2 years
How they met:At a gay San Francisco nightclub
Listen: 1:04 min(Download Audio .64 MB)"I think this is now our third time," Dresser said. "First we were registered domestic partners in the state. I proposed that time. I proposed in Vancouver, Canada. We were on vacation. And then the second proposal on Feb. 13, 2004, when we thought we had the first opportunity to legally get married. And I called him up at work and said, 'Hey, we have to do this. We have to take advantage of it.' Because at that time we weren't sure we would have the opportunity to marry. This time around when the opportunity came up, I said, 'OK, I've proposed twice, now it's your turn.' So he proposed to me." -- Justin Beck
Ronda Crenshaw (right), 44, and Deborah Hull, 50
Hometown:San Mateo
How long together:17 years
How they met:Crenshaw and Hull met at on the dance floor of a San Mateo club in 1990. Crenshaw was there celebrating her birthday and spotted Hull across the dance floor. "I really noticed Deborah's dance moves," Crenshaw said with a smile. "That was the initial spark." Their first date was a walk along a trail near Stanford, and "we have continued to walk forever since then," Hull said. The couple has shared custody of Hull's two sons from a previous relationship, now 19 and 23 years old. They had a civil union ceremony in Vermont in 2000 and were married in San Francisco in 2004 before those marriages were invalidated."We're hoping that three is a charm," Hull said. "We're hoping this is the one that sticks." -- John Cote
Chris O'Hare (right), 35, and Ted Hardie, 44
Hometown:Menlo Park
How long together:Six years
How they met:Hardie and O'Hare met at a friend's birthday party. They had a commitment ceremony at Stanford Memorial Church in 2002 and later were married in San Francisco in 2004 before those marriages were invalidated. They wanted their marriage today in Redwood City to be a quiet affair, but they wound up being the first same-sex couple to be married inside the San Mateo County clerk's chapel. Their 3-year-old son, Gabriel, was there to watch."It feels normal. This is normal now," Hardie said. "You get to have the same process as anybody else. That's really cool." -- John Coté
Sal Baglieri (left) and Pete Cirincione
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:32 years
How they met:At Mac's, a bar in San Jose. "For me, it was love at first sight," said Baglieri, 59. "He was surprised I called him." Cirincione, 61, said that was true; Baglieri was the first man he'd ever met at a bar who called him again.The men wed at San Francisco City Hall on Tuesday wearing matching black tuxedoes, white bow ties and white orchid boutonnieres. "This is making our relationship just as important as my mom and my dad's — it's nothing less," Baglieri said. "They were married 46 years." -- Heather Knight
Kim Belfor (right), 47, and Judi Kramer, 61
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:25 years
How they met:Belfor worked as a waitress in a restaurant and Kramer came in one day as a customer. The couple was married four years ago in San Francisco City Hall, but Tuesday morning's ceremony feels different."We've always been together, we've always been committed, we've always felt married," Belfor said. "It feels real this time." -- Cecilia M. Vega
Kate Sheppard (left), 27, and Kory O'Rourke, 32
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:8 years
How they met:At a pool in Southern California. Sheppard was a lifeguard, and O'Rourke was a water polo coach.The mothers of two came to City Hall Tuesday morning to get their marriage license and then rushed home to get ready for their ceremony this afternoon. "We have the limo. We have the flowers, the dresses and a wedding cake situation," O'Rourke said. Their 2-year-old daughter, Keaton, was very excited about her flower girl dress. Afterward, 23 of their friends and family will celebrate with the brides over dinner. -- Heather Knight
Dave Greenbaum (right) and Mike Silverman
Hometown:Lawrence, Kan
How long together:12 years
How they met:The couple, both self-proclaimed Macintosh nerds, met through a friend in college who told Silverman that he "met this guy who is as big as a Mac geek as you are. It turned out to be Dave," Silverman said. Neither was out of the closet, though, and a few years later they came out to each other. They had a commitment ceremony at an Omaha, Neb., synagogue in 1999."We have been waiting 12 years for this. We didn't want to wait any longer," said Silverman, 35. They don't plan to use the California marriage certificate they obtained in San Francisco on Tuesday to challenge the Kansas ban on same-sex marriage. "We're going to sit in front of the TV with our little dog and relax," said Greenbaum, 37. -- Wyatt Buchanan
Sherrie Holmes, 57, and Sara Taylor (left), 54
Hometown:Novato
How long together:18 years
How they met:Holmes and Taylor had worked together at a lesbian and gay community center in San Anselmo for four years when their friendship caught fire in 1990. They've been together ever since."I didn't really think about marriage because it has never been an option," said Taylor, who moved from Montana to the Bay Area in 1982 to become a Presbyterian minister. "The (state) Supreme Court had the courage to recognize that it is a fundamental right for each of us to choose who we will marry." -- Peter Fimrite
Geanne Galvez (left) and Rafaela Alcazar
Hometown:Oakland
How long together:7 years
How they met:On the Internet. They have a 1 1/2-year-old son, Kevin.
Listen:(Download Audio .37 MB)"We were waiting for a long time for the law to pass," said Galvez, 35, who proposed to Alcazar, also 35, just after the ruling. "I said, 'Let's go get married.' But I'm a little nervous because I've never been married before." -- Carolyn Jones
Jim Gormley (right) and Louis Timphony
Hometown:Oakland
How long together:35 years
How they met:At the corner of Market and Castro streets in San Francisco on Jan. 21, 1973. Timphony, 59, proposed to Gormley, 63, in their kitchen moments after the California Supreme Court's ruling May 17.
Listen:(Download Audio .37 MB)"This is all kind of anti-climactic and surreal," said Gormley. "We expected right until this morning that someone would come in and put a stop to it." -- Carolyn Jones
Ronni Pahl (left), 34, and Hannah Davis, 29
Hometown:San Jose
How long together:10 years
How they met:Pahl was in a coffee shop when Davis walked in speaking sign language with some friends. Pahl was mesmerized, but shy, so a friend offered to break the ice by speaking what little sign language she knew to Davis, only to find out that Davis can hear. They have been inseparable since. They also wanted to marry for their 12-year-old son, Isaiah Smith.
Listen: 1:54 min(Download Audio 1.08 MB)"I'm an activist, but this isn't about activism, this is about love and being able to love someone publicly," Pahl said. "It's very hard as a young person to come out, and to have this day, with so much support, to be able to show Isaiah he has a real family and not some patched-together thing, is enormously meaningful." -- Meredith May
David and Richard Speakman (left)
Hometown:Mountain View
How long together:Six years
How they met:David, 39, and Richard, 40, met the Silicon Valley way -- online. The high-tech workers found they had a lot in common and e-mails turned into much more. They were married in 2004 at San Francisco City Hall, and Richard changed his name about a year ago to match David's.
Listen: 2:10 min(Download Audio 1.24 MB)"We wanted to get married in San Jose because this is our real home," Richard said. "When we got married over Valentine's weekend in San Francisco, we thought for sure the courts would strike it down but it lasted for months. Now it's real. What can they do to us? We're married!" -- Meredith May
Michelle Julaton and Vanessa Angeles, both 29
Hometown:The couple, who met shortly before their freshman year in high school, both grew up in San Diego and have lived in San Francisco since 2003.
How long together:15 years
How they met:Through a mutual friend"We just had a big wedding in May, with our families and 160 guests," Angeles said. "When we found out this happened, we thought it was a nice coincidence to be able to do it legally." And, she added, she got to wear her wedding dress again. -- Marisa Lagos
Jami Matanky (left) and Vandi Linstrot
Hometown:Oakland
How long together:24 years
How they met:On a rafting trip on the American River. They’re registered domestic partners and have two sons.
Listen: 1:2 min(Download Audio .49 MB)"It feels like we're already married, in a lot of ways," said Linstrot, 52. "But getting married was never an option so we never thought we'd have this opportunity." Matanky, also 52, added, "So when we did get the opportunity, I just said, 'Let's do it.'." -- Carolyn Jones
Steve Meyer (right), 59 and Dayton Azevedo, 67
Hometown:Richmond
How long together:18 years
How they met:"We met at a gay bathhouse in Berkeley," said Meyer, 59, moments before he said his "I Do's" with Azevedo, 67, at the Contra Costa County Clerk-Recorder's office. "Can we say that publicly?" Meyer said. "It's the truth," Azevedo said, smiling. "We've been together ever since," Meyer said. The couple bonded over their love of cooking — Azevedo is a professional chef — as well as gardening, travel and staying in shape at the gym. Azevedo proposed to Meyer after the state Supreme Court ruling allowing same-sex marriages."It's time we enjoy the rights every other married couple has," Dayton said. -- Christopher Heredia
Bill Wilson (right), 58, and Fernando Orlandi, 59
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:22 years
How they met:Wilson and Orlandi met at a bar in Washington D.C. in 1986. They registered as California domestic partners the day that became legal in 1999, were married in 2004 on the first day of weddings at City Hall and were one of the first couples this morning. They were married by Mayor Gavin Newsom in a private ceremony in the mayor's office."We wanted to be married on the first day in 2008 and we hope it is the last time," Wilson said. -- Wyatt Buchanan
Huong Nguyen, 34, and Alison Beck, 32
Hometown:Oakland
How long together:13 years
How they met:They were students living in the same dorm at UCLA. Nguyen was a specialist in the Army and a cadet in ROTC. Beck was organizing a campaign to boot ROTC off campus. Nguyen picked love over the military, coming out to her commander and being discharged under the "don't ask, don't tell" policy. Now they have two sons, Theryn, 5, and Rowan, 3.Nguyen and Beck got their marriage license Tuesday and will wed in a backyard ceremony on Aug. 23. Nguyen said she never dreamed of a big wedding as a girl. "I wasn't very romantic in that way, but we dreamt of it when we got together. I feel a great sense of gratitude for everyone who has fought for this issue. We're just trying to take it all in." -- Heather Knight
Michael (left) and Clayton Price-Brown
Hometown:Richmond
How long together:3 1/2 years
How they met:They met while perusing Yahoo personals, a dating Web site. "I'd love to do a testimonial for them but I can't reach anybody at corporate headquarters," Michael, 44, said with a chuckle. "It works." Clayton, 45, proposed to Michael after hearing about last month's state Supreme Court decision allowing same-sex weddings. They were among the first couples to marry in Contra Costa on Tuesday."It was a natural reaction, a way to express my love to him," Clayton said. The couple rode in style. in a limousine to the Contra Costa County Clerk-Recorder's office in Martinez. "Yes I have jitters," Michael said. "Me, too," chimed in Clayton. "It'd be worse but we had champagne on the way over." -- Christopher Heredia
Marilyn Lang, 58, and Darlene Lindstrom, 52
Hometown:Landers (San Bernardino County)
How long together:Five years
How they met:Lang and Lindstrom met while attending the Metropolitan Community Church of Coachella Valley in Cathedral City. Lindstrom liked that Lang is a Christian; Lang joked that Lindstrom's legs were the reason she was attracted. They married in their church this morning.
Listen:(Download Audio .46 MB)"This is the most important day in the gay rights movement," said Lindstrom. "Now we're equal with everybody else. We're not at the back of the bus anymore." -- Michael Cabanatuan
Rodney Naccarato, 40, and Jim Winstead, 36
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:8 years
How they met:On the Internet
Listen: 1:15 min(Download Audio .74 MB)Naccarato and Winstead have been through this before. "This our third try!" said Naccarato. "We had a commitment ceremony in '02, we were married here in '04, and this is the third time around." The couple, accompanied by their 17-month hold son, Ezekiel, say "Third time's the charm!" They plan to have a larger ceremony with family in July. -- Marisa Lagos
Robin Tyler, 66, and Diane Olson, 54
Hometown:Beverly Hills
How long together:15 years
How they met:The couple met through friends in the 1970s, but waited 25 years to start dating. On Valentine's Day 2004, they went to the Beverly Hills courthouse to request a marriage license and were refused -- thus setting off a 4-year legal battle. Tyler and Olson were among the lead plaintiffs in the lawsuit that eventually overturned California's ban on gay and lesbian marriages. They were the first same-sex couple married in Los Angeles County at 5:01 p.m. Monday, at the same Beverly Hill courthouse."We're not nervous today. We've known each other 15 years. We've consummated the marriage. We love each other. Once the love of every couple getting married showers California, no one will want to change the constitution," Tyler said. -- Erin Allday
Michele Rutherford, 53 and and Erin-Kate Whitcomb, 42
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:16 years
How they met:Singing in the Vocal Minority choir nearly two decades agoThe couple came down to San Francisco City Hall on Tuesday to get their marriage license with their kids Parker, 8 and Hayden, 6. They plan on having a wedding later with family in attendance. "I just really wanted it to be real, as opposed to the facade of it," said Rutherford of why the couple has waited. "One of the reasons we only got our license today is I am getting a veil. And some posies! Because I have the right to do that." -- Marisa Lagos
Thomas Van Etten, 64, and Robert Van Etten, 69
Hometown:Palm Springs
How long together:40 years
How they met:Thomas and Robert met in one of the two gay bars that existed in Minneapolis at the time. It was, they said, one of the only places gay people had to meet. The next morning, Robert called a friend and said he thought he'd met the man he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. In 1975, they took the same last name. The former San Franciscans, now retired, moved to Palm Springs in 2000.
Listen: 1:15 min(Download Audio .74 MB)"This is a dream come true," said Thomas Van Etten. "I never thought we'd see this day. I'm so happy. I've loved him for 40 years and now I can legally marry him." -- Michael Cabanatuan
Dean Seymour and Philip Colavito
Hometown:Palm Springs
How long together:8 years
How they met:Seymour, 44, and Colavito, 43, belonged to the same Los Angeles yacht club, and they met each other aboard a friend's boat on an outing to Catalina Island in 2000. They moved to Palm Springs a year later.
Listen:(Download Audio .51 MB)"This is important to us," said Seymour. "I hate to call our wedding a cause, but the cause is very important." -- Michael Cabanatuan
Paul Festa, 38, and James Harker, 31
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:5 1/2 years
How they met:On-line. They e-mailed for a month before meeting in person at Foreign Cinema where they had dinner and watched "Goldfinger."They have a domestic partnership and married in 2004 before being married again Tuesday by Mayor Gavin Newsom in his office. So which of the three anniversaries will they mark? "The one we really celebrate is the first date," Festa said. "That's when we knew."
Hank Donat and Jeff Halpern (left)
Hometown:Hank Donat: Boston, MA; Jeff Halpern: Holyoke, MA. Both live in SF.
How long together:8 years
Listen: 00:28 min(Download Audio .22 MB)"We met through friends and our first date was at a coffee shop in Nob Hill. I don't know if we had a proposal this time around ... I proposed, and I think you proposed, and we just decided to get married. It was just the right thing to do."
Hank Donat: "And really to correct the injustice that was done in 2004 when our original wedding was reversed." -- Justin Beck and Cory Lopez
Tyler Barrick (left), 27, and Spencer Jones, 29
Hometown:Both live in San Francisco, though Barrick grew up in Idaho and Jones is from Utah
How long together:6 years
How they met:Barrick and Jones met in Utah at a friend's party. Jones proposed last weekend in Big Sur.
Listen: 00:48 min(Download Audio .48 MB)"We want to be part of history and what better day than today," said Barrick, adding that the couple plans to have a larger celebration later this year. "This means everything to us -- it means that our love is the same as everyone else's." Added Spencer, "we want to affirm marriage. We think it's a great thing and finally, today, we can be a part of it." -- Marisa Lagos
Brad Akin (left) and Paul Hill
Hometown:San Francisco
How long together:13 years
How they met:Through friends at a barbecue. "I knew he was he guy!" Hill said. Akin agreed, "Me too!"The men have a 17-year-old daughter. "I've always told her I would marry her father the first minute I could and that's today at 8:30 a.m.," Akin said. "I've heard people say this is the happiest day of your life, and it is -- until tomorrow."
Joann Bratton (left) and Sheryl Bratton
Hometown:Penngrove
How long together:11 years
How they met:The couple, who have a 4-year-old daughter, Ella, met at a friend's commitment ceremony 11 years ago and had their own commitment ceremony nine years ago."It's symbolic, it makes it legal, it makes it right," said Joann Bratton. She and Sheryl Bratton decided to marry on Monday night because, "there's people trying to stop this. (We) wanted to make a public statement to show everyone traditional marriages are still intact. We are two people who love each other." -- Jill Tucker
Doug Erickson and Al Muller
Hometown:Guerneville
How long together:37 years
How they met:In a Los Angeles bar in 1971"It's been a long wait," said Erickson as the couple waited to be called to the counter Monday night in Sonoma County. They were the third couple to marry there.
"We have considered ourselves married from day one, but now we can't get thrown out of hospitals," he said. -- Jill Tucker
Melanie Phoenix, 47, (left) and Terry Robinson, 48
Hometown:Santa Rosa
How long together:25 years
How they met:The couple met at the Metropolitan Community Church in San Francisco. They picked up their marriage license in Sonoma County on Monday and plan to wed in a ceremony on Aug. 1."It was one of those movie things -- love at first sight. It really was a storybook. It really does happen," Phoenix said. -- Jill Tucker
Traci Duncan, 44 and Sherri White, 53
Hometown:Oakland
How they met:The couple met at a party exactly two years ago Monday. White, a teacher, asked Duncan, a mental health counselor, out. They decided to have a ceremony Monday, on their anniversary, interlaced with some African-American traditions.The couple was married by the Rev. Dr. D. Mark Wilson, and surrounded by friends and family. Wilson noted the significance of two black women being married with such support.
"Folks like us are not often in a place like this, so it's significant to have this recognition," he said. "It takes a village to raise a child but it also takes a whole community to keep a relationship together."
White said the relationship got serious when she told Duncan she'd "found somebody I want to date exclusively." Duncan nervously asked her who -- she answered, "You!" --Christopher Heredia
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Plan your own funeral, your way?
2008-06-14 14:30:21
just happen to read an article mentioned about a website that help you to plan your own funeral! Plan a funeral, this is something my wife does not like me to talk or discuss about it. to her, this is something should never be happened.
I told her the rest of my side of family already purchased the burial places, and I am the only one left out. She asked why should I care? if something happen, we both will bury at the same place. I told her no matter what, I will "leave" earlier than her. (how could we bury at the same spot, die together?) I am not young anymore, I have to think about the future. US federal government is still not legal in same sex marriage, even if I could retire and stay in Taiwan, there is a lot of legal issues will arise.
We never finished this topic, my wife discontinued the conversation. .
I guess this website will be very helpful, if your wife/hubby does not like to discuss and you want to plan something ahead of time.
https://www.mywonderfullife.com/
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Obama Promises to Get Rid of Anti Gay Legislation in America
2008-06-10 03:18:39
I wonder he will fullfill his promises, especailly, the part about gay immigration, "I have worked to improve the Uniting American Families Act so we can afford same-sex couples the same rights and obligations as married couples in our immigration system."
this immigration for gay couple is the part i concern the most. if it passes, I can sponsor my wife to come and stay in USA legally. Eventually, she will receive her green card. Let's cross our fingers and see if that really works out. if it does, i will give my fully support to Obama.
Photo courtesy of UK Gay News Barack Obama: “...winning broad support will require stepping outside our comfort zone … we need to bring the message of LGBT equality to sceptical audiences as well as friendly ones.” Obama Promises to Get Rid of Anti Gay Legislation in America
06.09.08By UK Gay News
The abolition of discriminatory legislation against gay American men and women are among the promises made by Senator Barack Obama, the presumptive Democrat presidential candidate in November’s general election.“I will never compromise on my commitment to equal rights for all LGBT Americans,” the Senator said in an ‘open letter’ to the American LGBT community published on Friday.
“But neither will I close my ears to the voices of those who still need to be convinced,” he continued.
“That is the work we must do to move forward together. It is difficult. It is challenging. And it is necessary.”
Sen. Obama also said that he would use “the bully pulpit” to urge states to treat same-sex couples with full equality in their family and adoption laws.
“I personally believe that civil unions represent the best way to secure that equal treatment,” he said. “But I also believe that the federal government should not stand in the way of states that want to decide on their own how best to pursue equality for gay and lesbian couples — whether that means a domestic partnership, a civil union, or a civil marriage.”
He went on to say that having the right positions on the issues is only half the battle.
“The other half is to win broad support for those positions,” he pointed out. “And winning broad support will require stepping outside our comfort zone… we need to bring the message of LGBT equality to sceptical audiences as well as friendly ones.”
Full Text of Sen. Obama’s Letter to the LGBT Community below:
I’m running for President to build an America that lives up to our founding promise of equality for all — a promise that extends to our gay brothers and sisters. It’s wrong to have millions of Americans living as second-class citizens in this nation. And I ask for your support in this election so that together we can bring about real change for all LGBT Americans.
Equality is a moral imperative. That’s why throughout my career, I have fought to eliminate discrimination against LGBT Americans. In Illinois, I cosponsored a fully inclusive bill that prohibited discrimination on the basis of both sexual orientation and gender identity, extending protection to the workplace, housing, and places of public accommodation. In the U.S. Senate, I have cosponsored bills that would equalize tax treatment for same-sex couples and provide benefits to domestic partners of federal employees. And as president, I will place the weight of my administration behind the enactment of the Matthew Shepard Act to outlaw hate crimes and a fully inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act to outlaw workplace discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity.
As your President, I will use the bully pulpit to urge states to treat samesex couples with full equality in their family and adoption laws. I personally believe that civil unions represent the best way to secure that equal treatment. But I also believe that the federal government should not stand in the way of states that want to decide on their own how best to pursue equality for gay and lesbian couples — whether that means a domestic partnership, a civil union, or a civil marriage. I support the complete repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). Federal law should not discriminate in any way against gay and lesbian couples, which is precisely what DOMA does. I have also called for us to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, and I have worked to improve the Uniting American Families Act so we can afford same-sex couples the same rights and obligations as married couples in our immigration system.
The next president must also address the HIV/AIDS epidemic. When it comes to prevention, we do not have to choose between values and science. While abstinence education should be part of any strategy, we also need to use common sense. We should have age-appropriate sex education that includes information about contraception. We should pass the JUSTICE Act to combat infection within our prison population. And we should lift the federal ban on needle exchange, which could dramatically reduce rates of infection among drug users. In addition, local governments can protect public health by distributing contraceptives.
We also need a president who’s willing to confront the stigma — too often tied to homophobia — that continues to surround HIV/AIDS. I confronted this stigma directly in a speech to evangelicals at Rick Warren’s Saddleback Church, and will continue to speak out as president.
That is where I stand on the major issues of the day. But having the right positions on the issues is only half the battle. The other half is to win broad support for those positions. And winning broad support will require stepping outside our comfort zone. If we want to repeal DOMA, repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, and implement fully inclusive laws outlawing hate crimes and discrimination in the workplace, we need to bring the message of LGBT equality to skeptical audiences as well as friendly ones — and that’s what I’ve done throughout my career. I brought this message of inclusiveness to all of America in my keynote address at the 2004 Democratic convention. I talked about the need to fight homophobia when I announced my candidacy for President, and I have been talking about LGBT equality to a number of groups during this campaign — from local LGBT activists to rural farmers to parishioners at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta, where Dr. Martin Luther King once preached.
Just as important, I have been listening to what all Americans have to say. I will never compromise on my commitment to equal rights for all LGBT Americans. But neither will I close my ears to the voices of those who still need to be convinced. That is the work we must do to move forward together. It is difficult. It is challenging. And it is necessary.
Americans are yearning for leadership that can empower us to reach for what we know is possible. I believe that we can achieve the goal of full equality for the millions of LGBT people in this country. To do that, we need leadership that can appeal to the best parts of the human spirit. Join with me, and I will provide that leadership. Together, we will achieve real equality for all Americans, gay and straight alike.
Article courtesy of UK Gay News/Obama Pride
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